“Perhaps in the next world women will be more valued than they are in
this.”
SARAH SIDDONS (1755 - 1831)
Self-portrait by Sarah Siddons, plaster bust c 1820 ©
Victoria and Albert Museum
PART FOUR - A Woman's Tragedy continued
Sarah
Siddons had to bear the worst tragedy that can befall a mother, the
death of a child, five times. Two of them died in infancy, an expected
mortality rate for the time, but she gave the impression that only pouring her grief into acting enabled her to endure the losses of
two grown up daughters, one aged only nineteen, and of her eldest son
when he was forty, all due to lung diseases. Two children, a son and a daughter, survived her.
As
a conscientious mother, Mrs Siddons' instinct was to protect her
daughters from the devil's profession of acting; as an actress, to
protect herself from competition. She and William Siddons were anxious
to secure conventional respectable lives for all their children. Only Henry, the
eldest, became an actor. Their younger son, George, was a godson of the
Prince of Wales, later George IV, and entered the Indian Civil Service.
In the character of a tender mother, with her son Henry Siddons, the
only one of her children to follow his parents into the acting
profession, in 'Isabella' by Thomas Southerne. Engraving, June 1785,
London by Caldwall of a painting by William Hamilton © Victoria and
Albert Museum.
Due to
their mother's successful career, the girls were not brought up in
expectation of having to work for a living. Mrs Siddons provided for
them all their lives.
All
three girls were articulate, attractive, self-assertive and
strong-willed, raised in a cultured household, conversing with the
leading writers, artists and actors of the day. The eldest, Sarah
Martha, known to the family as Sally, was reputed to be an accomplished
song-writer. Weakening health cut short any professional
aspirations of the two elder girls, and the youngest was brought up from the age of nine to be her mother's
companion and solace in retirement, a sacrifice made without complaint
or surrender of individuality; after Mrs Siddons' death, with her
comfortable inheritance, she lived an active and happy life.
Her
daughters were not downtrodden; they respected their mother and
her career; the highly intelligent eldest
and youngest daughters were protective of her
professional creative needs, which included being spared emotional upset at home.
Like other loving mothers, the only thing Sarah Siddons,
the prophetess of emotion on stage, could not save her daughters from
was their own feelings. Sally never blamed her mother for the part she played in
the psychological drama - it wasn't a love story - with Thomas Lawrence
that overwhelmed all of them.
Initially, Mrs Siddons was too blinded by her own
affection for Lawrence to see the whirlpool into which he was pulling them; she was
enjoying the undercurrent too much, that his confused feelings were flowing towards her, not her daughters.
The Gipsy Girl by Thomas Lawrence, oil on canvas, 1794
© Royal Academy of Arts, London
A
disturbing piece of erotica by Lawrence, for which Maria Siddons, aged
fifteen, has been suggested as the model. It is a plausible theory: she
has the intense, dark eyed and tousle-headed look of her family, and the
date fits with their period of intimacy. The genre to which the picture
belongs in art history is "fancy", a sentimental objectification of
rural life for rich people, but this wild, half-naked, boyish girl with
her
flushed cheeks, parted lips and fierce gaze, is inviting a far more
sexually ambivalent response, begging tough questions about what on
earth Lawrence wanted out of the
Siddons sisters.
Mrs
Siddons was in her early forties, still slim and splendidly handsome,
at an age when the most famous actress in the country needed assurance
that she could still be loved as a woman, not just a national monument.
It was never a sexually consummated love affair; it was
more of a self-dramatization for the suppressed bisexual,
celebrity-obsessed Lawrence to fulfill an impossible dream of union with
the irreproachably moral mother-goddess Mrs Siddons.
Sarah Siddons and members of her family by Richard James Lane, published by Joseph
Dickinson, after Sir Thomas Lawrence, lithograph, published May 1830
© National Portrait Gallery, London.
Sketching her informally at home in 1798, at the time he was trying to marry one of her daughters, Lawrence saw the actress as a classical deity of brooding potency with three of her children and one of her younger brothers revolving like satellites around her. Clockwise: Cecilia Combe (née Siddons); Sarah Siddons (née Kemble); Maria
Siddons; George John Siddons; Charles Kemble (actor)
Lawrence
was fourteen years younger than Mrs Siddons and ten years older than
her
daughter Maria, who was a lusciously pretty sixteen year old when he
started courting her after ditching the elder sister. Both girls shared
the intense
dark-eyed good looks and striking features of their mother; they were
mini-Sarah
Siddonses.
A generational pattern was being repeated: Sarah Kemble had
been a headstrong fifteen year old when she promised herself to
William Siddons, an actor eleven years older than her in her father's
touring company. Roger
Kemble was so disapproving that he dismissed his daughter, despite her obvious talent, and
sent her into service, to no avail, because the determined lovers
married two years later.
Mrs
Siddons supported what she believed was true love, joining Lawrence and
Maria's fight to overcome William Siddons' opposition to an engagement
until they wore him down. He looks tired in Opie's portrait. A few weeks
after pledging his troth to Maria, Lawrence broke the news to Mrs
Siddons that he had changed his mind again, and wanted to marry her
elder daughter. She was sympathetic; she understood the play of
passions in an artistic temperament. A few months after that, Maria was dead.
Lawrence
was the only other man apart from her husband who aroused such reckless feelings in her; he was a soulmate, and they had a
rapport that was never broken, even after Maria and Sally's deaths; in
old age, she said she wanted Lawrence to be a pallbearer at her funeral. They were part of each other's myth.
It
says a lot about the devotion and respect that Sarah Siddons commanded
from people, and even more about the steadfast character of her eldest
daughter, that Sally did not utter or write a word of reproach against
the mother she adored.
Money
was important to Mrs Siddons, as it was to a self-made man like
Lawrence. Contemporaries, wanting artists to live on inspiration alone,
sneered at their materialism. Formative experiences had made both of
them terrified of penury. She was understandably jealous of her value in a male-dominated market.
Her notorious meanness about appearing for other actors’ benefits is
contradicted by the numerous charity performances she gave after her
official retirement, not always for members of her own family. Her celebrity and relative affluence for a self-employed actress made her a target for
caricaturists, and, finding no other vices in her, they aimed at her
supposed avarice.
Print by Gillray, Theatrical Mendicants, relieved,
published 1809. Sarah Siddons and her brothers Charles Kemble and John
Philip Kemble begging for money to rebuild Covent Garden Theatre. Mrs
Siddons appears as a more forceful masculine presence than her fawning
brothers; even in caricature, she retains dignity © Victoria and Albert
Museum.
In
1789, during a brief break from acting, due to ill-health, she took up
sculpture as an alternative creative outlet which sustained her through
emotional crises and later her melancholy retirement. Her main subject
was herself. She discovered an even more powerful intensity than any of
the many artists who portrayed her, a fuller underlip jutting forward
in an expression seething with passions, a Shakespearean head of Brutus,
a brooding Romantic hero, a grieving mother or queen, a guilty Lady
Macbeth reliving her crimes in her sleep. She could imagine
herself in all these parts.
The
esteem in which Mrs Siddons was held by the public and critics was
higher than that of any other actor, male or female, but her brother
John Philip Kemble was given grander honours on his official retirement
than she had on hers. Stung by this proof of the difference in the
official status of male and female actors, Mrs Siddons remarked that
"perhaps in the next world women will be more valued than they are in
this”.
Mrs Siddons in the Character of the Tragic Muse engraved by Cook,
1783. © Victoria and Albert Museum. She walks regally into the next
world, as the most famous tragedienne in English-speaking history